And most men will agree with the fact that women appear to be more and more beautiful the more confident they are.
There’s just nothing like a classy woman walking down the sidewalk like she’s the boss.
Throughout my many years of coaching men and women, I have found that the BIGGEST cause of BPD relationship failure is when the non-BPD fails to establish boundaries early on.
And by boundaries I mean For women, there’s just nothing more attractive than a man that knows what he wants, isn’t afraid to call you out, challenges you instead of chasing you, values himself and yet still has that genuine love for you. For men, while we do tend to focus more on beauty, the killer combo is a woman that’s beautiful has brains.
You may feel like such a person is pushing you to extremes as he or she manipulates and guilts you into uncomfortable actions or emotions.
“We spoke of the perfect wedding, of names for our children – we dared to dream.”As tends to happen, however, their dreams were interrupted by reality and, in Paddy’s case, that reality includes his girlfriend’s Borderline Personality Disorder.
“To say that this relationship has been a roller coaster would be an understatement.
Those moments are what the person longs for.”Still, to Paddy, it is worth it.
“I try to see the light,” he says, and he believes that one day his girlfriend will overcome her BPD.