I signed up for Plenty of Fish, Ok Cupid, Match, Tinder and e Harmony and my immediate influx of emails was overwhelming!Here's my experience on each, sorted by what I think is a better selection of guys for you ladies.This morning, I took a peek at the questions coming into my blog. This is more than TWICE the number of couples who met through bars, clubs, and other social events. That’s the sound of your preconceived notions being shattered. Now, to be fair, 38% of marriages came from work and school. So clearly that must mean that those are “better” ways of meeting… About 100% How many people are paying for online dating sites at a given time? What this illustrates is that, proportionally, 5% of the population (online daters) accounts for 17% of the marriages in the past 3 years. Go out for one night of drinks and appetizers with your girlfriends.There I found eight questions all saying the same thing: “Where is the best place to meet a quality, relationship-oriented man? As opinionated as I am, I’m always open to the possibility of being proven wrong. Because studies show that facts don’t actually matter when you have a deeply held opinion. If I told you that 2 2 = 4, but you believe that 2 2 = 5, no amount of evidence can make you change your mind. Which goes to show that the people who are dating online are finding love at a significantly higher rate than people who rely on workplace romance or set-ups. You just spent more than an entire month on and you didn’t meet any guys either.So if 90% of all men aren’t even first-date worthy, where is the place where you have access to the greatest number of men? I don’t think your negative experience in online dating is silly.
This lack of opportunity, above all, is the main reason that you’re not in love now. If you have high standards, MOST men are not going to be to your liking. I’m not a corporate shill for the online dating industry.For now, the best thing you can do when you’re a nice guy looking for a date is to adjust to the circumstances, no matter how much it galls you. There is something you can do that won’t necessitate changing who you are and what you believe in, which is being nice.Instead of turning into an asshole just to sate the borderline tendencies of many attractive women, try being patient and see where the wind blows. You just have to adjust the level of your affections, because it’s the SMART thing to do. Before anything else, let us explain to you what a nice guy is.Nice guys are less likely to engage in temporary trysts, because they are aware of the consequences that a woman will face because of it.They would rather be in a relationship than play around, because that’s just the way they are.