Make sure you’re on the same page relationship-wise within the first date or two.
After that, the waters can become a bit muddied with attraction, and you can start to become emotionally attached to someone who may not want any of the things that you want in a relationship.
Pulling away means not calling you, or not sending you emails and text messages, or not seeing you for a while. Even if it can be utterly confusing for you when he does that, especially if you really like him, how you react to his absence will set the stage if he´s going to fall in love with you, take advantage of you, or pull away for good.
“It´s human nature for a man to test the waters”, says Argov, “he wants to see how much he can get away with.” Here are the three reasons why the man who seems to like you will pull away: Most men deliberately don´t call just to see how you´ll respond.
It’s a shift so small that it would be unrecognizable to anyone else. You assume he’s busy and try not to let paranoia take hold. I don’t want to say it “never ends well,” but the odds are rarely in our favor.
He doesn’t need to check in with you every moment of the day.
The two classic reactions women have are either messaging too much to try to close the distance, or getting angry at the guy, which just ends up pushing him further away.Early in dating, starting from day one, he´s already calculating how much he can get away with. *** Make him commit and surrender his heart to you, learn how to be “the woman men adore and never want to leave”.Are you willing to stretch, bow and bend backward just to have a relationship with him? This is when your “hard to get” tactic will come to action. *** The next time he pulls away again, and shows himself up again, tell him, “Oh hi! I was so busy these past days that I didn´t even remember when´s the last time you called.” Don´t show him that you missed him, show him instead that your world went perfectly great without him.If you´re upset, it sends him the clear message how much you want this relationship.And if you badly need this relationship, he knows that he has 100 percent hold on you. Once he shows himself up, tell him you´re happy to see him (which sends a hint that you like him but not need him), but don´t be emotional about his absence.